Thank you for celebrating boring life. The interesting thing is that when you accept the ordinary, slow down, notice and savor the small things, the boring life is rich and colorful.
Yes, absolutely! Love that observation <3 A boring life is incredibly rich and colorful. Thank you for reading and taking the time to share your thoughts. :)
Suzanne, your reflections offer a soothing contrast to the constant hum of modern life’s demands. In a world that often chases fleeting thrills, your perspective on the quiet power of routine feels like a refreshing pause. Thank you for sharing your wisdom.
Thank you for sharing these beautiful words and reflections! The world DOES focus so intently on what's fleeting. I have to constantly remind myself to tune back into what really matters. I'm so glad to hear that this blog did the same for you. Thanks for reading!
"now I don’t even like eating out because my food honestly tastes better" - I experienced this today!!! I could've written this post word-for-word. Thank you, it's very validating ♥️
This was wonderful. I love this idea of boredom gives you space. Space is something that always makes me feel happier and calmer,.more peacedul. Its a balm to anxiety and the feeling that you need to be in a rush the whole time. Thank you for sharing these tips.
This really resonated today, very much having a ‘my life is boring what can I do to shake it up’ moment. Feeling trapped by responsibilities, feeling like I need some excitement. But I also know that it’s the days when I wake up with a schedule clearly mapped out in front of me that bring the most contentment. Actually I’m usually fine in the week, it’s the weekends that I really struggle with. Having once been very sociable, I’m now in the zone of liking early, sober nights but that makes me panic a little. Thanks for the post, gives me stuff to think about!
Hi Hannah, I'm so glad it resonated with you. I relate so much to feeling trapped by responsibility at times. I do sometimes try to find ways to take a little break by making things as easy as possible or temporarily lowering my expectations. I definitely relate to the sober life being a little boring as well. Everyone seems to drink! I wish I knew more people who lived a similar lifestyle, but I guess that's why Substack is so cool! haha. Thanks for reading and commenting. Happy to connect! :)
I can empathize. I didn't drink until my frontal lobe developed post college. Now I enjoy drinking but my friends are going sober having drank since their early teens.
I spent so many years feeling like I was failing life because I didn’t live up to the extrovert ideal. Now I embrace those quiet, “boring” qualities that make me feel relaxed and in tune with myself. Thank you for sharing!
same, girl, same. It’s a big reason why I drank so much in college! To appear extroverted and fun. So much better embracing who we really are! ❤️ (I mean, I hope I’m still fun, just not in the life of the party kind of way. ;)
Thanks indeed for putting a spot light on boring. We believe that what might seem boring can actually be a space of greater calm, awareness, and consciousness. Embracing a seemingly boring life allows us to connect with ourselves and the universe, experiencing the alignment of wellness in both mind and body."
Ahhh so beautifully said! Boring *does* allow us to connect with ourselves and the universe, and experience alignment of wellness. So glad you, too, enjoy a boring life! :) Wishing you a wonderful weekend <3
That’s awesome to hear! With a screen name like Nature, I imagine you spending lots of time in beautiful locations. If so, that sounds anything but boring!
Oh my gosh, that sounds like the furthest thing from boring! One of the prettiest parts of the country. My husband and I often fantasize about moving to the middle of nowhere. The older I get, the more space and quiet I crave!
Hi Shanjitha, I'm so glad the post resonated with you. Sometimes we all need that nudge to accept and embrace our boring lives! :) Thank you for reading!
Sometimes a boring life can seem that way, but we have the ability to make the boring exciting! I love romanticizing coffee in the morning or lunch out with a friend or taking a walk in the same place I always do. I love my little boring life ♥️
I've been thinking lately about how travel is addictive. it's a constant high of chasing curiosity. i'm learning to balance travel with my routine because I completely agree that boredom breeds creativity. this morning I was meditating at a park and images kept coming to me, so I took out my digital notepad and described what I was seeing. I realized these are scenes from a book I'm writing, and I could only see them once my life was quiet enough for them to come through. the distractions of adventure cloud out my visions, so no writing is done.
That is so true! It is a constant high. And ultimately rootless. Though still very fun, haha. That is such a cool story about the images coming to you! That’s what it’s all about. So much creativity lies underneath the urge to distract ourselves from the abyss. ❤️
Definitely! Dogs love their routines, and I also find that personally grounding. Pets can be so enduringly calm and cheerful, it puts things in perspective. That's awesome you foster! Is it hard to say good-bye? I would get so emotionally attached.
I just posted an essay about that very thing. https://cindyojczyk.substack.com/p/the-power-of-good-grief-to-heal-hearts It is the most common response I get from people when they learn I foster. It was tough going in the beginning with my kids (me as well). We had to get to a point of trusting our instincts and understanding the process. We soon were able to detach better, so we could do it again. Not easy but doable. if you ever want to consider it and need a helping hand, I'll guide you through!
Thank you for celebrating boring life. The interesting thing is that when you accept the ordinary, slow down, notice and savor the small things, the boring life is rich and colorful.
Yes, absolutely! Love that observation <3 A boring life is incredibly rich and colorful. Thank you for reading and taking the time to share your thoughts. :)
Suzanne, your reflections offer a soothing contrast to the constant hum of modern life’s demands. In a world that often chases fleeting thrills, your perspective on the quiet power of routine feels like a refreshing pause. Thank you for sharing your wisdom.
Thank you for sharing these beautiful words and reflections! The world DOES focus so intently on what's fleeting. I have to constantly remind myself to tune back into what really matters. I'm so glad to hear that this blog did the same for you. Thanks for reading!
"now I don’t even like eating out because my food honestly tastes better" - I experienced this today!!! I could've written this post word-for-word. Thank you, it's very validating ♥️
So glad to hear you could relate! I don't understand why restaurants don't make better food!! That's their whole job!
Precisely. The best food I’ve ever eaten was made with Love. Which is why I prefer my own kitchen.
Same! My food tastes better AND I know what's in it.
This was wonderful. I love this idea of boredom gives you space. Space is something that always makes me feel happier and calmer,.more peacedul. Its a balm to anxiety and the feeling that you need to be in a rush the whole time. Thank you for sharing these tips.
A spacious life is the best kind of life! Thanks so much for reading and commenting, Bonnie. I really appreciate it, and am glad you enjoyed the blog!
This really resonated today, very much having a ‘my life is boring what can I do to shake it up’ moment. Feeling trapped by responsibilities, feeling like I need some excitement. But I also know that it’s the days when I wake up with a schedule clearly mapped out in front of me that bring the most contentment. Actually I’m usually fine in the week, it’s the weekends that I really struggle with. Having once been very sociable, I’m now in the zone of liking early, sober nights but that makes me panic a little. Thanks for the post, gives me stuff to think about!
Hi Hannah, I'm so glad it resonated with you. I relate so much to feeling trapped by responsibility at times. I do sometimes try to find ways to take a little break by making things as easy as possible or temporarily lowering my expectations. I definitely relate to the sober life being a little boring as well. Everyone seems to drink! I wish I knew more people who lived a similar lifestyle, but I guess that's why Substack is so cool! haha. Thanks for reading and commenting. Happy to connect! :)
I can empathize. I didn't drink until my frontal lobe developed post college. Now I enjoy drinking but my friends are going sober having drank since their early teens.
I lived this, so refreshing! I love my boring life! 🧡
Hi Kate, so glad you loved it! I think your share of this blog made it get some traction, and I'm really grateful to you! Thank you!
Oh yay! My pleasure! It’s obviously a topic that resonates 👏
I spent so many years feeling like I was failing life because I didn’t live up to the extrovert ideal. Now I embrace those quiet, “boring” qualities that make me feel relaxed and in tune with myself. Thank you for sharing!
same, girl, same. It’s a big reason why I drank so much in college! To appear extroverted and fun. So much better embracing who we really are! ❤️ (I mean, I hope I’m still fun, just not in the life of the party kind of way. ;)
Thanks indeed for putting a spot light on boring. We believe that what might seem boring can actually be a space of greater calm, awareness, and consciousness. Embracing a seemingly boring life allows us to connect with ourselves and the universe, experiencing the alignment of wellness in both mind and body."
Ahhh so beautifully said! Boring *does* allow us to connect with ourselves and the universe, and experience alignment of wellness. So glad you, too, enjoy a boring life! :) Wishing you a wonderful weekend <3
Yessssss!! I love a boring (aka meaningful, rich, delightful, wonder full) life too!!!
Yes to all of those things!! Thanks so much for reading, Leona!
What a peaceful and relaxing 😌 perspective.
Makes my boring life even more appreciated.
That’s awesome to hear! With a screen name like Nature, I imagine you spending lots of time in beautiful locations. If so, that sounds anything but boring!
I do live by the Olympic National Forest 🏔️.
Lots of wonderful trees 🌲.
And have a fun patio garden 🪴 I enjoy.
But like to stay home 🏡 and don’t socialize much.
I do NOT get bored with life.
But others might find my lifestyle not very exciting.
Oh my gosh, that sounds like the furthest thing from boring! One of the prettiest parts of the country. My husband and I often fantasize about moving to the middle of nowhere. The older I get, the more space and quiet I crave!
This is what I needed today. The nudge to accept and embrace my boring life. Thanks Suzanne.
Hi Shanjitha, I'm so glad the post resonated with you. Sometimes we all need that nudge to accept and embrace our boring lives! :) Thank you for reading!
I love this so much, and I needed to read every word of this.
I will keep coming back to it.
And- what is your healthy hot chocolate recipe 😍
Love hearing that! Makes my heart sing. My healthy hot chocolate recipe cannot be beat. I do:
1 cup coconut milk (I use 1/4 cup Thai Kitchen coconut milk which has no fillers, just coco milk and water, and then dilute with water.)
1 tbs cacao
1 tbs maple syrup
It's an amazing pre-bedtime drink. Let me know if you try it!
It doesn’t keep you wide awake?
no... why would it?
Same✨️✨️✨️
Sometimes a boring life can seem that way, but we have the ability to make the boring exciting! I love romanticizing coffee in the morning or lunch out with a friend or taking a walk in the same place I always do. I love my little boring life ♥️
Love that! thanks so much for sharing your experience! ❤️
I've been thinking lately about how travel is addictive. it's a constant high of chasing curiosity. i'm learning to balance travel with my routine because I completely agree that boredom breeds creativity. this morning I was meditating at a park and images kept coming to me, so I took out my digital notepad and described what I was seeing. I realized these are scenes from a book I'm writing, and I could only see them once my life was quiet enough for them to come through. the distractions of adventure cloud out my visions, so no writing is done.
That is so true! It is a constant high. And ultimately rootless. Though still very fun, haha. That is such a cool story about the images coming to you! That’s what it’s all about. So much creativity lies underneath the urge to distract ourselves from the abyss. ❤️
Well written! I find that caring for pets and fostering animals creates enriching routines - exercise, engagement, laughter, calm.
Definitely! Dogs love their routines, and I also find that personally grounding. Pets can be so enduringly calm and cheerful, it puts things in perspective. That's awesome you foster! Is it hard to say good-bye? I would get so emotionally attached.
I just posted an essay about that very thing. https://cindyojczyk.substack.com/p/the-power-of-good-grief-to-heal-hearts It is the most common response I get from people when they learn I foster. It was tough going in the beginning with my kids (me as well). We had to get to a point of trusting our instincts and understanding the process. We soon were able to detach better, so we could do it again. Not easy but doable. if you ever want to consider it and need a helping hand, I'll guide you through!
This, this….this🙏🥰
So glad you enjoyed the blog, Solveig! Thank you for reading and taking the time to comment ♥️🙏🏼